Success is not easy. If it was easy, then everyone would be successful. To take control of your life and to be successful, you need to get rid of these three things;
Blaming, Complaining and Excuses.
Stop Blaming
When something happens not as per our wish, we tend to blame either the parents, the bosses, the clients, the government, the weather, the economy, etc.
But does blaming improve the situation? Definitely NOT.
So in order to be successful, you need to take 100% responsibility for your life. You have to give up all your excuses, or victim stories, or all the reasons why you can’t.
Stop Complaining
People normally complain to the wrong people.
Eg. They go to work and complain about their spouse, then they come home and complain to their spouse about the people at work.
Complaining on a regular basis may leave you feeling helpless, hopeless, and victimized.
“Don’t just sit there (and complain), do something”
It’s up to you to make the change. The world doesn’t owe you anything. You have to create it.