Respect is something that we all desire in life. You are free to have any amount of money you like. But what good is all that money if you’re not regarded by others – or if you don’t respect yourself?
Philosopher Alain De Botton often talks about the intrinsic human need for acknowledgment and respect, which ties into the need for more money as a symbol of social stature. In this regard, when someone shows off their abundance of wealth, it may be a cry for attention – a subconscious desire to be recognized and respected.
Furthermore, respect is something that cannot be purchased. It is something that is effectively developed through behavior – in the way we interact with others, or what we can do for others which reflects true character.
As a result, respect is far more valuable than money.
On the other hand, self-respect is associated with feelings of trust, safety, and well-being. This is due to the perception of worth or personal value that others have placed on you.
“People Will Respect You Only If You Respect Yourself First”.
Respecting yourself entails being truthful, paying attention to others, and holding yourself accountable. It also entails surrounding yourself with individuals who are happy and encouraging. Above all, it’s about treating others the way you want to be treated. In short, if you want to be a happy and successful person, you must respect others.